Couples Therapists & Sex Therapist

Therapist & Coaches at Respark

SERVING ALL OF TEXAS, COLORADO, & WASHINGTON

Welcome! Respark is a confidential, all-inclusive, boutique group psychotherapy practice. We’re proudly serving clients with highly certified sex therapists in Texas, Colorado, and Washington providing both in-person and online through online therapy sessions.

Our team of highly specialized sex therapists have 40+ years of combined experience when it comes to couples therapy and sex therapy. We utilize the most current and up-to-date therapy techniques to help you and your partner create a healthy and long-lasting relationship.

We give you a space that is comfortable, judgement-free, and compassionate, to help you work through any relationship or sexuality issues you may be facing. Learn more about our couples therapy practices and connect with us to get started!

Therapists - Texas

Robyn Flores - Respark Therapist & Coach

Robyn Flores - Respark Therapist & Coach

Robyn Flores, MS, LMFT-A, LPC-C

Robyn Flores, MS, LMFT-Associate, LPC-Candidate, NCC, is a therapist providing client care in both Texas and Colorado, supervised by Heather McPherson, MA, LPC-S, LMFT-S, CST. Robyn is currently a Ph.D. student working toward her doctorate in Counselor Education and Supervision. She is part of the Sexual Health Alliance certification program on her way to earning certification as a Sex Therapist and Sex Educator. In addition, she is part of the Problem Sexual Behavior (PSB) specialty certification course, learning and applying new skills to work with clients who feel shame around their sexual expression, behaviors, and practices. Robyn is partaking in extensive training for certification as an Autism Spectrum Disorder Clinical Specialist (ASDCS), researching, supporting honoring the individuals who find themselves creating meaning at the intersection of neurodivergence and sexuality.

Robyn provides a safe and brave, non-judgmental space for clients to process their experiences and concerns. She believes that therapy is a place for collaboration, creativity, exploration, and growth and that taking the first step in reaching out for therapeutic support is a courageous and vulnerable effort in the healing process. Robyn embraces a Humanistic, Person-Centered philosophy but also integrates interventions such as mindfulness, emotional regulation and distress tolerance skills from Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT). She often views presenting concerns through Narrative, Feminist, or Relational-Cultural theoretical lenses to empower clients to challenge societal norms and to use their voices for change on macro and micro levels. She often maintains a Systems approach with relational dynamics and families. In addition, she is certified as an Eating Disorder Intuitive Therapy® Clinician and is trained in Humanistic Sandtray Therapy through the Sandtray Therapy Institute.

Robyn has been a presenter and co-presenter at several conferences nationwide, educating licensed practitioners and medical professionals on various types of relationships and Sex Therapy. Although she works with various types of clients and presenting concerns, she has a heart for those who find themselves at the intersection of body image and sexual issues and works with clients to explore and regain confidence and meaning in their authentic sexuality and relationships with themselves and others. Robyn creates comprehensive treatment plans for each individual client or relational dynamic to implement strategies and interventions to help them reach their unique and individualized goals.

“There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.” – Maya Angelou

Vielca

Vielca McBride - Respark Therapist

Licensed Professional Counselor 

Sexual struggles are more common than you think. If you are looking for a safe, comfortable and confidential environment, you are in the right place. I’ll put you at ease and you’ll find that working with me is a warm, comforting experience. Some of my areas of expertise are sexual pain, open/poly lifestyles, recovering from an affair, revitalizing sexual relationships, low libido, orgasm difficulties, sexual satisfaction and “porn/sex addiction”. Vielca also welcomes the LGBTQ+ and kink communities. Sexual vitality and pleasure are essential parts of being alive. Let’s add more play, intimacy and excitement to your life!

Vielca offers sex therapy in Spanish and English. She began her sexuality studies in 2001. She is a licensed counselor in both Costa Rica and the US. Her interest in mindfulness led her to become a yoga instructor, avid meditation and a Tantra practitioner. Her focus is holistic and relational.

Brooke Crisp - Respark Therapist

Brooke Crisp - Respark Therapist

MA, LPC-A

Brooke understands that seeking therapy can be intimidating. She will meet you where you are in your life journey with acceptance and create a safe space for you, which provides the opportunity for vulnerability, exploration, and growth. She is all about sex positivity, play, and joy in helping you to achieve satisfaction and contentment in your sexual being.

Jamie

Jamie Mayo-Buttry - Respark Therapist

Licensed Professional Counselor, Licensed Professional Mediator

When you step into my office you will be warmly greeted in a judgement-free setting. The therapeutic process starts with a thorough assessment to really get to know who you are and where you are at, because the issues you have don’t define who you are as a person. We will work together to identify the problem areas and employ the therapeutic process to foster growth. In an effort to best facilitate that growth, I have trained in therapeutic theories including CBT, DBT, EFT, and Gottman therapy for couples. My personal brand of therapy employs a person-centered approach, using narrative therapy to separate you from your issues and rewrite the story of your life to reflect who you truly are. I believe the therapeutic process needs to be direct, honest, and specifically tailored to the nuances of you and your situation. Certification in Sex Therapy and in Consensual Non-Monogamy through Sexual Health Alliance is in progress.

Jessica

Jessica Baker - Respark Therapist

Licensed Professional Counselor

Her approach to psychotherapy is rooted in assisted self study to unfold the unique ways you are attached and organized around your experience. She works with women and men who struggle from feelings of "out of control" sexual behaviors to desire issues. She has experience working with adults who have a history of childhood abuse/neglect and helps them understand how this impacts their ability to have meaningful and nourishing sexual experiences. Jessica has been formally trained and mentored in trauma-informed therapies, helping clients to overcome their somatic symptoms and mental distress caused from negative childhood experiences.

She welcomes all gender and sexual diversities.

Callie Seymour (1)

Callie Seymour - Respark Therapist

Callie Seymour, M.A., Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Associate, Supervised by Heather McPherson, LPC-S, LMFT-S, CST

For me, therapy is about offering clients the ability to authentically explore and experience every aspect of themselves and their relationships. This can be uplifting, invigorating, and...frightening! I understand the tremendous courage that it takes to begin therapy, whether as an individual or a couple. You may be feeling lonely, frustrated, confused, or even a little lost. I create a warm, positive space where we will work as a team to discover the ways in which you can flourish in your own unique and vital experience.

My approach to therapy is integrative and humanistic, relying heavily on positive psychology, trauma-informed approaches, solution-focused techniques, and mindfulness. As a sex therapist in training, I welcome LGBTQ+, kink, and non-monogamous clients. I prioritize safety, connection, and integration of mind, body, and spirit in my work. Let’s work together to spark growth, connection, and fun in your life and relationships!

Lisa Samuels - Respark Therapist

Lisa Samuels - Respark Therapist

MA, LPC-Associate

Lisa provides a warm, non-judgmental, and safe space for clients. She believes that all people have the power to grow and change. Her goal is to be a partner in therapeutic relationships with her clients to support their process of development and exploration. Lisa follows a Person-Centered approach while viewing individuals, couples, and experiences through a relational and attachment-focused lens.

Prior to working in the counseling field, Lisa worked in Special Education for over a decade. She has a heart for Neuro-diverse individuals and enjoys working with all people at various stages of life.

Lisa Samuels, MA, LPC-Associate, is a therapist providing client care in Texas, supervised by Heather McPherson, MA, LPC-S, LMFT-S, CST. She is part of the Sexual Health Alliance certification program on her way to earning certification as a Sex Therapist.

Abbey Pelosi - Respark Therapist

Abbey Pelosi - Respark Therapist

Licensed Clinical Social Worker - Supervisor

Hello, I am a holistic, trauma informed & seasoned clinician who specializes in alternative relationships such as the swinging lifestyle, ethical nonmonogamy, and BDSM lifestyle. I am passionate about challenging the societal norms that can hold people back. I am committed to helping you explore and create a passionate and fulfilling relational and sexual life with less fear, anxiety, and shame.

Julia Bowman - Respark Therapist

Julia Bowman - Respark Therapist

Julia Bowman - LPC-A

Rates start at $135

I have lived in Austin Texas for the majority of my life. Sex has never been a topic that makes me uncomfortable in any way, and I enjoy hearing about everyone’s unique perspectives and experiences.

I graduated from Capella with a bachelor’s in Science for Psychology in 2018. I also successfully completed all of my sex therapy training through the Sexual Health Alliance. I am currently attending Capella for the Master’s program in Mental Health Counseling.

Laurin Lewis - Respark Therapist

Laurin Lewis - Respark Therapist

M.A. LPC-Associate

Laurin is a lifelong Texan who has never fit many of the stereotypes associated with being a Texan. Laurin is an LPC-Associate supervised by Heather McPherson MA, LPC-S, LMFT-S, CST. She believes authenticity to be the most important trait a person can bring into a counseling relationship. She views all clients from a humanistic, trauma-informed, and holistic perspective that allows her to truly see the client as they are. She is passionate about recovery from religious and sexual trauma, grief and loss, non-monogamy, and providing a brave space for clients to explore their personhood. She graduated with her Master of Arts in Professional Counseling from Texas State University in December 2021. Prior to that, she graduated from Austin Community College with a Business Administration AS and University of Houston with a Psychology BS.

Heather

Heather McPherson - Respark Founder and Director

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Supervisor, Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, LPC-S, LMFT-S, CST

I believe real-life experiences deeply influence our work as a sex therapist. Heather has explored and played in 25+ countries and counting, which has provided her with valuable experiences and knowledge. She has also endured the high pressures of the corporate world, cross-country moves, anxiety over layoffs, exploration of sexuality, struggling to keep intimacy alive in a long term relationship, and career changes, which all contribute greatly to her ability to relate to others.

After receiving her B.A. in Business from Texas State University, Heather worked as a Sales Supervisor for Wyndham Worldwide and later moved to southern California and worked in the marketing and advertising industry. After a career change, Heather received her Master’s degree and furthered her training in couples and sex therapy. Heather has been in a committed relationship since the summer of 2000 and has been married to her lovely husband since 2006. She is lucky to be able to be in both Denver, Colorado and Austin, Texas and enjoy reading, skiing, traveling and other adventures with her husband and 2 Dachshunds. She is incredibly thankful and grateful to her life partner and husband for being supportive and willing to accompany her on this great journey.

Heather launched Respark Therapy & Associates almost a decade ago. In 2015, she also founded Sexual Health Alliance, an organization that provides advanced training and certification programs to all healthcare professionals.

Master's Level Grad Student Intern Therapists

Brooke Becker

Brooke Becker- Master's Level Clinician

Rates starting at $65/hr.

In a world that promotes shame, sexual empowerment can be hard to find. In therapy, we will work together to help you feel like the best, most celebrated version of yourself. I bring an inviting and radically non-judgmental energy into the therapy room. This is your space to show up exactly as you are. Therapy is about acknowledging full personhood and I would be doing a disservice to you in the quality of care I strive to provide if we didn’t talk about how our identities have shaped our life experiences.

My long-term passion for the study of sexuality has taken me across the globe, from studying in Copenhagen, Denmark to working with female labor coalitions in Udaipur, Rajasthan. I seriously love what I do and will go to great lengths to find research and resources to ensure that all your goals are achieved. 

Amy Palmer- LPC-A

Amy Palmer- Master's Level Clinician

Rates starting at $65/hr.

Amy is passionate about open-style relationships, the LGBTQIA+ community, improving relationship dynamics, and providing a sex-positive supportive space. She draws from emotionally focused, narrative, mindfulness, and cognitive-behavioral theories as helpful tools in the therapy process. With each session, she brings compassion and a relaxed style as well as the ability to challenge clients when necessary.

Alex Paro

Alex Paro - Master's Level Clinician

Rates start at $65

You’re here, and that’s a huge first step. Finding a non-judgemental, compassionate therapist to share your struggles with isn’t easy, I definitely understand that. Together we’ll tackle those struggles, your desires, your pain points. We’ll fight together within the confines of society to discover your authentic self and learn to share your magic outwardly. Let’s work together to find the relationships you want, the love you want, the sex, the job, the life that brings you joy.

I bring elements of feminist theory, social justice theory, and queer theory together with solution-based techniques to create a holistic approach to rewrite your story the way you want it to be. We’ll uncover what’s holding you back between the trauma, the systemic barriers, and the societal expectations. We can work together to unlearn what we’ve been taught and challenge the impacts of oppressive systems. While working for change at larger levels, we can create space for healing and empowerment on the personal level.

As a queer, non-monogamous, cis-gendered woman, I welcome the opportunity to talk about LGBTQIA+, open relationships, kink, and sexuality as a whole with couples and individuals. I’m passionate about empowerment, sexuality, art, and baking, and absolutely would love to see a picture of your dog.

Therapists - Colorado

Alex Paro

Alex Paro - Master's Level Clinician

Rates start at $65

You’re here, and that’s a huge first step. Finding a non-judgemental, compassionate therapist to share your struggles with isn’t easy, I definitely understand that. Together we’ll tackle those struggles, your desires, your pain points. We’ll fight together within the confines of society to discover your authentic self and learn to share your magic outwardly. Let’s work together to find the relationships you want, the love you want, the sex, the job, the life that brings you joy.

I bring elements of feminist theory, social justice theory, and queer theory together with solution-based techniques to create a holistic approach to rewrite your story the way you want it to be. We’ll uncover what’s holding you back between the trauma, the systemic barriers, and the societal expectations. We can work together to unlearn what we’ve been taught and challenge the impacts of oppressive systems. While working for change at larger levels, we can create space for healing and empowerment on the personal level.

As a queer, non-monogamous, cis-gendered woman, I welcome the opportunity to talk about LGBTQIA+, open relationships, kink, and sexuality as a whole with couples and individuals. I’m passionate about empowerment, sexuality, art, and baking, and absolutely would love to see a picture of your dog.

Therapists - Washington

Coaches - Worldwide

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Taylor Spaziani - Intake Coordinator & Clinical Manager

My name is Taylor Spaziani and I am the intake coordinator and clinical manager here at Respark! I am currently a graduate student working on my degree in couples and family therapy at the University of Colorado Denver and am beginning to work on my sex therapy certification.  I have wanted to be a sex therapist since I was in the 5th grade, and I have been learning about all things sexuality since. One of my favorite sayings I live by is, "embrace your weirdness," because I believe the unique qualities we hold as individuals are what brings the world magic. I think society has a terrible way of making us feel like we all need to look and act like one another, to mask ourselves into the roles that society wants to see us as. This is why I love studying sexuality as a profession because sexuality reminds me of just how unique we all are. I believe in the power of helping others embrace their unique selves, especially their unique sexualities. It truly brings me so much joy and I continue to thrive in my life long educational journey and a constant hunger for learning more and doing better for the greater good of my community.

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Our Services

ONLINE THERAPY

Therapy is for everyone–every person can benefit from some form of therapy. People of all ages, all cultures, and all demographics are seen in therapy. Cultural taboos, stigmas, shyness, embarrassment, or shame can affect the way people view and judge their life. There is no shame in getting help. Offering online therapy services allows us to reach more people in Colorado and Texas. Other than using our screens to communicate, your therapy journey will not differ from in-person therapy. Some benefits of online therapy include: access to support regardless of location, physical safety, no commute, and overall convenience. 

All sessions with a Respark therapist, regardless of location, are for you and your current needs. At Respark, we are dedicated to helping you navigate through depression, anxiety, and other life stressors. Respark your love for life again.

COUPLES THERAPY

Therapy is for everyone–every person can benefit from some form of therapy. People of all ages, all cultures, and all demographics are seen and flourish from therapy. Similarly, couples therapy is for every couple–newlyweds, couples celebrating their 35th anniversary, new parents, and those looking to explore more in their relationship. Couples Therapy, especially at Respark, can be a beneficial space for productive, non-judgemental communication for those at any stage of their relationship. Couples Therapy is designed to not only focus on the bad moments but find all the ways to celebrate and encourage the good. We are dedicated to helping you and your partner(s) navigate through life changes, loss and grief, sexual issues, and all stages of a relationship At Respark, we strive to guide you and your partner(s) through anything that may come up in your life–we’re here to help fan the flame of your love.

SEX-POSITIVE COUPLES THERAPY

Sex-positive couples therapy is a subset of couples therapy that focuses on sexual exploration and sex-positivity all with zero judgment of desires, practices, and fantasies. Sex-positive couples therapy is for every couple–newlyweds, couples celebrating their 35th anniversary, new parents, and those looking to explore more in their relationship, regardless of their gender or sexual identity. Your therapy sessions can be a beneficial space for productive, non-judgemental communication for those at any stage of their relationship. Respark’s sex-positive couples therapy is designed to not only focus on the bad moments but find all the ways to celebrate and encourage the good. At Respark, we strive to guide you and your partner(s) through anything that may come up in your life–we’re here to help fan the flame of your love.

THERAPY FOR INFIDELITY AND AFFAIRS

A valuable portion of sex therapy and couples sex therapy is the conversation about sexual exploration in the relationship and negotiating changes. Improving communication is a critical first step for many couples and in Respark’s Therapy for Infidelity and Affairs, you will practice the skills to talk about issues in a productive way–all to spark hope in a seemingly hopeless situation. Working through an affair requires tremendous work, openness, and vulnerability on all parties–those who participated in the affair and those who feel affected by the affair. Please note that the truth might not come out all at once. This can be a painful process; one that can bring fear and doubt, uncertainty, and potential shame, all of which you and your Respark therapist will work to reduce. Understanding how to address what happened and how to grow through the event can take time.

UNMATCHED SEXUALITY THERAPY

Unmatched sexuality therapy is for those who want sex more often than their partner(s), those who want sex less often than their partner(s), those who have experienced a change in libido and usual arousal, and those feeling a sudden total lack of sexual arousal or desire. Unmatched Sexuality Therapy is your time to discover and voice sexual boundaries you might not have needed earlier in life, that have changed over time and through relationships, and personal desires and needs when it comes to sexual interactions. Our highly-trained professionals discuss the conflict in arousal issues all the time, so know you are not alone. 

Unmatched Sexuality Therapy is for those struggling with any arousal issues, desire discrepancy, or libido problems. Remember, there is no “normal” when it comes to sexuality, so stop trying to measure it. Meet your desire discrepancy with compassion and understanding.

COUPLES SEX-POSITIVE THERAPY AND RELIGION

Religion is one of the most common reasons couples seek out sex therapy. While our faith is important to many of us, it can instill elements of shame and fear when it comes to sexuality. Seeking out sex-positive therapy can help to chip away at preconceived ideas around sex that our religion has taught us. This can give you a sense of freedom within your sex life and over time allow you to no longer look at sex in a shameful or negative light. Your sessions with a couples sex-positive Respark therapst will focus on sexual exploration, reducing shame from previous stigmas, and encouragement of new practicies, desires, and fantasies. Respark’s therapists have taken additional classes on sexuality and received supervised training in sex therapy. Our sex-positive therapists are unconditionally accepting and welcome all potential clients, no matter your relationship style or religion.

SEX THERAPY

Sex therapy is for everyone: couples, partners, families, and individuals. People of all ages, all cultures, and all demographics are seen in therapy. Cultural taboos, stigmas, shyness, embarrassment, or shame about sex affect the way people view and judge their own sex life. Sexuality counseling and/or sex therapy may be especially appropriate for those involved in polyamory or kink. Sex therapy refers to specialized skills and specific treatment approaches to sexuality issues, problems, and relationship issues. These can involve questions about sexual orientation/identity, gender identity, or sexual/relationship preferences including monogamous, polyamorous, and open relationships. Sometimes physical difficulties prevent or diminish sexual pleasure while other times it can be sexual communication and intimacy that is the root of the problem. In general, sex therapy works to help you clarify, set goals, and resolve sexual questions or difficulties which affect you and/or your relationships.

“SEX ADDICTION” THERAPY

“Sex addiction” or Problem Sexual Behavior, is often a symptom of something else. During “Sex addiction” therapy, we will examine you as a whole person which includes your family, religion, society, and cultural context. For many clients, “sex addiction” is the result of a moral or religious conflict. For others, shame may greatly affect how one feels about their sexual behavior. "Sex Addiction" therapy is for someone that struggles with their sexual thoughts, choices, or behaviors–individuals who feel out of control or hopeless because of their sexual behaviors. Respark’s therapy takes a strengths-based and compassionate approach to treating sexual acts or behaviors that are considered problematic. We utilize the Out of Control Sexual Behavior model, which serves as a non-shaming and sex-positive approach to working with problem sexual behaviors. 

THERAPY FOR ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION

Erection issues span a wide range of experiences from being unable to keep an erection firm for sexual intercourse to premature or delayed ejaculation. Regardless of which issue you may be experiencing, the outcome can still prove frustrating and demoralizing. First know that any form of erectile dysfunction is not only very common, but treatable. 

In a session with a Respark therapist, you can guarantee compassion and discretion when discussing these topics. We even offer online therapy so you do not have to come into the office. Your therapy journey with Respark does not need to be long-term, in fact, many clients want a quick fix and, on rare occasions, clients may only need one visit. Therapy for erectile dysfunction can help you navigate the emotional and potential relationship issues that may arise from your dysfunction.

INDIVIDUAL THERAPY

Respark’s individual therapy is talk-therapy centered and available either online or in-person for those in Colorado and Texas. During general therapy sessions, you have the opportunity to discuss your life, what seems to be affecting you negatively and, conversely, what positively affects you and how to encourage more joy. When you attend therapy with a Respark therapist, your sessions are spaces to discuss anything and everything, including your sexuality. As a team, you and your Respark therapist will work towards improving and strengthening communication skills that enhance your intimacy and how to communicate your desires, both in and out of the bedroom. We believe being able to properly express your desires, while also understanding your partner’s or partners’ sexual identity and desires can be transcendent for your relationships.

INDIVIDUAL SEX-POSITIVE THERAPY

Sex-positive therapy for individuals is a subset of individual therapy that focuses on sexual exploration and sex-positivity all with zero judgment of desires, practices, and fantasies. Respark’s therapists have not only taken additional classes on sexuality and received supervised training in sex therapy, but have already explored their sexual attitudes, biases, and beliefs. Our sex-positive therapists are unconditionally accepting and welcome all potential clients, no matter your relationship style. As a team, you and your Respark therapist will work towards improving and strengthening communication skills that enhance your intimacy and how to communicate your desires, both in and out of the bedroom. We believe being able to properly express your desires, while also understanding your partner’s or partners’ sexual identity and desires can be transcendent for your relationships.

THERAPY FOR EATING DISORDERS

Respark’s Therapy for Eating Disorders is relapse prevention-based therapy and focuses on assisting and supporting clients while they learn and practice the skills necessary to remain healthy and recovery-focused. Therapy for all bodies, minds, and spirits – celebrating body diversity and experience treating special populations (athletes; mid-life and beyond; individuals who identify as part of the disabled community; LGBTQIA+; all sex, gender, race, religion inclusive). Therapy modalities are person-centered and recovery-centered and may include the utilization of proven, effective techniques. Eating Disorders (including, but not limited to, Anorexia, Bulimia, Binge Eating Disorder, “Orthorexia”, OSFED) are serious mental illnesses that are symptomatically described by extreme concerns about body weight, body shape, eating/diet, and body image which can lead to patterns of disordered eating and utilization of unhealthy behaviors.

TRAUMA THERAPY

Trauma therapy is working with a therapist who is empathetic to your feelings, understands your story, and encourages growth through your trauma. Trauma may affect your daily life and relationships. Whether you experienced something traumatic yesterday or decades ago, it is common to feel cornered by your trauma. Perhaps you don’t know where to start to heal or how to process the events that happened to you. 

At Respark, we understand that remembering the event can often feel as bad as experiencing it and how new experiences can trigger similar distressing reactions. Because of this barrier, traumatic experiences can remain unresolved and cause ongoing disruptions in various aspects of your life, including how you feel about yourself, how you see the world, and how you relate to others, all of which Respark’s therapists are here to assist with.

BODY IMAGE THERAPY

Body image–the way we interact with and feel about our body–affects many aspects of our daily lives, including how we engage with our sexuality. Because our society normalizes many unhealthy habits like negative body talk and unrealistic expectations, it is no mystery as to why many struggles with their body confidence. During your body image therapy sessions with a Respark therapist, you will chart a journey to radical self-acceptance. We will work together to untangle the web of lies our society has placed on our bodies, especially on women and queer bodies. The process to transition genders can include intense, negative thoughts and emotions towards your body; you may even experience symptoms of Body Dysmorphia Disorder (BDD) where your daily life is severely affected.

POLYAMORY THERAPY

A polyamorous relationship is typically defined as an open style relationship, where all partners involved consensually agree to multiple romantic and/or sexual relationships with other partners. The main difference between polyamory and open relationships is that polyamory can consist of loving multiple people and having intimate, loving relationships with more than one partner. Just like open relationships, some people think that being polyamorous must mean you never experience jealousy or infidelity. And just like open relationships, jealousy and infidelity can definitely occur in polyamorous relationships if agreements are broken.

Respark’s Polyamory therapy is an inviting, safe space to discuss your relationship diversity. Whether you’re looking for continued support from someone who understands and celebrates your poly relationships, or if you’re curious but hestitent to explore this new lifestyle, Respark is here to start healthy and productive conversations about polyamory and setting your poly journey up for success.

THERAPY FOR SWINGERS

Swinging, sometimes referred to as consensual non-monogamy or ethical non-monogamy, can be a source of excitement and adventure in your relationship, but it can also bring up pain, hurt, and confusion. This is where your Respark therapist comes in. Our therapists have obtained advanced training from the world’s experts in swinging and open relationships, among other aspects of relationship and sexual diversity, and are ready to answer any questions you may have and talk through any scenarios, both good and bad. For some, swinging is simply not for them, while others find relief from this relationship style that fits their need for exploration and novelty. Respark’s therapists have received detailed training on relationship diversity and are here to help guide you into, out of, or through an open relationship. These situations can be a huge change that is sometimes very painful and/or takes some work to sort out what's ok and what's not.

THERAPY FOR OPEN RELATIONSHIPS

Open relationships, also known as ethical non-monogamy, can be a huge source of love, joy, and excitement for individuals and couples, though at times these relationships can result in painful experiences and hurt relationships. This is where Respark’s Therapy for Open Relationships comes in. Though many people have successful open relationships, this relationship dynamic is still stigmatized, lacks positive role models, and may be difficult to navigate. Respark’s therapists have received detailed training on relationship diversity and are here to help guide you into, out of, or through an open relationship. These situations can be a huge change that is sometimes very painful and/or takes some work to sort out what's ok and what's not. Therapy for couples and individuals already in an opening relationship or thinking about opening up can be helpful in identifying potential pitfalls and preventing pain down the road.

KINK THERAPY

Respark’s Kink Therapy is an inclusionary and celebratory space to express your wildest, kinkiest fantasies. Repark couples and sex therapists are highly trained in kink, BDSM, and kinky relationships. many have additional certifications and advanced training on the research and typical concerns. In your sessions, we will address creating negotiations with your partner(s) beforehand, discuss ways to effectively and safely act out your desires, and resolve any problems that may arise in the process. Should you be interested in the scene yet unsure of where to begin or if you’re already a kink veteran, we want to help. During your Respark therapy sessions, we can discuss your relationship to kink, but also everything else! Our therapists are experts in the sexuality field and can help guide you to better understand your needs, your desires, and yourself.

LGBTQ+ THERAPY

Everyone deserves to be seen, heard, and understood in therapy regardless of socio-economic status, race, gender identity, and sexual preferences. No help can be had when a therapist has a bias towards particular patients. Respark’s LGBTQ+ Therapy is talk therapy with expert and compassionate therapists and is available either online or in-person for those in Colorado or Texas. During general therapy sessions, you have the opportunity to discuss your life, what seems to be affecting you negatively and, conversely, what positively affects you and how to encourage more joy. All practicing therapists with Respark are AASECT Certified Sex Therapists and SHA Certified Sex Therapists. We welcome people from all walks of life. We are experienced and knowledgeable of all expressions and orientations. We see clients that struggle with same-sex attraction, gender identity/gender care, and gender nonconformity. Several therapists on our staff also specialize in transgender issues. 

LGBTQ+ COUPLES THERAPY

LGBTQ+ Couples Therapy, especially at Respark, can be a beneficial space for productive, non-judgemental communication for those at any stage of their relationship. Couples Therapy is designed to not only focus on the bad moments but find all the ways to celebrate and encourage the good. At Respark, we strive to guide you and your partner(s) through anything that may come up in your life–we’re here to help fan the flame of your love. Everyone deserves to be seen, heard, and understood in therapy regardless of socio-economic status, race, gender identity, and sexual preferences. All practicing therapists with Respark are AASECT Certified Sex Therapists and SHA Certified Sex Therapists. We are trained in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Queer, Questioning, Intersex, and asexual issues. We see clients that struggle with same-sex attraction, gender identity/gender care, and gender nonconformity. Several therapists on our staff also specialize in transgender issues.

POSTPARTUM THERAPY

Postpartum therapy targets those affected by any perinatal depression and/or anxiety. Postpartum depression is not the “baby blues,” which are a normal part of postpartum adjustment and require no medical or psychological intervention. PPD affects approximately 20% of all postpartum women. It is a real illness and thankfully, it is fully treatable. Do not deny yourself the opportunity to feel good again. In Respark’s Postpartum therapy, we are committed to working with you and your unique symptoms and needs for any postpartum depression or anxiety you may be experiencing. The process of pregnancy, labor, and child-rearing can be difficult, painful, angering, or crushing. At your postpartum therapy, we will sort through your emotions and work together to pull you through these unwelcome feelings. Reach out to a Respark therapist and let’s begin your journey back to wellness.