Couples Sex Therapy

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Sex-positive couples therapy for every twist in your individual and relationship journey

ReSpark offers evidence based, effective therapy and coaching. Clinicians obtain world class sex therapy and couples therapy training from the Sexual Health Alliance. Many are licensed as an LMFT, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and have additional specialized certifications including year-long training programs in Couples therapy, Kink Informed Certification, Problem Sexual Behavior Certified ("Sex Addiction”), Open/Poly Certified and other critical issues related to relationships and sexual health.
At ReSpark, our approach to Sex-Positive Couples Therapy is rooted in the belief that sexual exploration and positivity are essential components of a fulfilling relationship. This specialized form of therapy is designed to create a safe, non-judgmental space for couples to explore their desires, practices, and fantasies freely. Our therapists are not just trained in conventional sex therapy techniques; they've undergone extensive education in sexuality, including supervised training and personal exploration of their sexual attitudes, biases, and beliefs. This comprehensive background ensures that every therapist brings an unconditionally accepting and inclusive perspective to their sessions, welcoming clients of all relationship styles, genders, and sexual identities.

Common Presenting Issues

Relationships

  • Communication Problems
  • High Conflict Relationships
  • Couples Counseling
  • Relationship Counseling
  • Premarital Counseling/ Premarital
  • Affairs, Infidelity, or broken agreements
  • Emotional abuse or coercion
  • No Sex / Low Sex Relationships
  • Desire Differences
  • Intimacy Concerns
  • Divorce Prevention & Recovery
  • Trust Issues and Rebuilding Trust
  • Managing Jealousy and Insecurity
  • Co-Parenting and Parenting Challenges
  • Managing Stress and Life Transitions as a Couple
  • Financial Stress and Its Impact on Relationships

Specific Issues

  • No sex/low sex relationships
  • Orgasm Difficulties
  • Gaps in Sexual Desire
  • Pelvic pain
  • Painful Intercourse
  • Embarrassment or shyness
  • Erectile Difficulties
  • Premature ejaculation
  • Delayed Ejaculation
  • Premature Ejaculation or Early Ejaculation
  • Peyronie’s disease
  • Sexual Shame
  • Religion/spirituality & sexuality
  • "Sex Addiction" or Problematic Sexual Behavior
  • Out of Control Sexual Behavior
  • Compulsive sexual behavior
  • Porn “Addiction"
  • Sexual Harm
  • Sexual Abuse
  • Consent issues
  • Anxiety and Stress Impacting Sexual Function
  • Cultural/Social Factors Affecting Sexual Expression

Who Can Benefit?

Sex-Positive Couples Therapy is a versatile and beneficial option for a wide array of couples:

  • Newlyweds embarking on their journey together.
  • Couples celebrating decades of companionship.
  • New parents adjusting to their evolving relationship dynamics.
  • Partners seeking to deepen their exploration and understanding of each other's desires.

Core Focus Areas

Our therapy sessions offer a robust platform for:

  • Negotiating Evolving Relationship Roles: As life changes, so do the roles we play in our relationships. We'll help you navigate these transitions smoothly.
  • Establishing Healthy Boundaries: Learn to set and respect boundaries that honor both partners' needs and desires.
  • Exploring and Celebrating Sexuality: From discussing fantasies to considering open relationships, we encourage open dialogue and exploration.
  • Navigating Life's Challenges: Whether it's the joy of a new birth or the sorrow of loss, we're here to support you through all of life's stages.
  • Strengthening Communication: Enhance your ability to communicate effectively, deepening your connection and understanding.
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sex-positive couples therapy

Just want a therapist that is knowledgeable and affirming?

Clients tell us we're friendly, down to earth and approach therapy in a collaborative manner. We offer a holistic, gentle yet direct, and tailored approach that includes well-researched theories with a relational foundation. Together, we will learn new techniques, assign at-home exercises, reading assignments, conduct in-session guided exercises and other activities that make therapy and coaching fun and productive. We'll work together to form an approach that will be tailored to your goals. Leading researchers, including Esther Perel, Brené Brown, John Gottman, David Schnarch, David Ley, Chris Donaghue, and Marty Klein influence our therapeutic work with couples and individuals.  Additionally, as AASECT-Certified Sex Therapists, we will work toward improving intimacy, strengthening communication skills, and communicating your desires.

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What Does It Mean to Be Sex-Positive?

Being sex-positive means embracing sexuality as a healthy, integral part of the human experience. It's about advocating for safe sex practices, personal sovereignty, and consent, all while viewing sexuality without moral judgment or cultural bias. This philosophy underpins our therapy, guiding couples towards a more accepting, open, and satisfying sexual relationship.

At ReSpark, we understand that cultural stigmas and personal insecurities can weigh heavily on relationships. We're committed to helping you and your partner navigate through any challenges you face, offering a pathway to rediscover joy, intimacy, and connection in your relationship. Join us in rekindling the flame of love and passion in your life with sex-positive couples therapy.

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