Getting to Know Robyn Flores
Meet one of Respark’s talented therapists, Robyn Flores, MS, LMFT-A, LPC-C! 1. What made you want to become a Sex Therapist? I was inspired by a professor, who is also a Sex Therapist when working on my Masters degree. I ended up presenting with him at the Texas Counseling Association conference in 2019, presenting…
Sexual Surrogacy in the Bedroom
Sexual surrogacy therapy is supportive and meant to foster self-awareness, healthy boundaries, and good communication before any sexual contact. The practice is an excellent resource for sex therapists as sexual surrogacy is a therapeutic practice designed to help people become more comfortable with sex, their body, and/or the emotional and physical skills they need for…
When Your Therapist Makes Porn
Sex therapists and couples counselors have lives outside of their profession. It’s often awkward to think of your therapist as a person who deals with trials and tribulations in life. However, it’s important to remember that your sex therapist is a human being and entitled to the same delicacies that their patients enjoy in life,…
The Joys of Mutual Masturbation for Couples
Nobody knows your body better than you! Masturbation is a great way to explore your desires and get to know what your body likes and needs. Most of us are comfortable masturbating in the confines of our own personal space- for me I love masturbating in my bed deep under the covers. There’s nothing like…
Sexual incompatibility: What to do when you and your significant other have different preferences in bed
Sexual incompatibility is more common than one may think. Many couples find themselves struggling with sexual compatibility with a partner, and things can get even more tricky if you’re polyamorous and have more than one partner. It’s often difficult to ensure that everyone’s needs and desires are being met in the bedroom. It’s important to…
How to Boost Intimacy After a Long Dry Spell
What is a relationship dry spell? Dry spells are a normal part of any relationship- they happen to the best of us. It’s hard to maintain a consistent sex life with the stressors and business of day-to-day life. A dry spell is an extended period of time in which you don’t have any form of…
What to do if Sex is Painful?
Pain during sex is very common and it can easily put a damper on your sex life. If you’re experiencing pain during sex you’re not alone. There is a multitude of reasons as to why a person may experience pain during sex. The first thing you should do is see your doctor in order to…
How to Talk About Consent with a New Partner
Talking about consent is an essential part of any relationship or sexual interaction. It’s the first step one should take in a sexual encounter. When you’re with a new partner it’s important to know what consent does and doesn’t look like. Consent is not accepting a free drink at the bar or a ride home…
Why is Sex SO Important in a Relationship?
Relationships are complicated, to begin with, and things often only continue to complicate when people try to incorporate intimacy into their daily lives. Intimacy is vital in relationships, but there is no exact formula on how important sex is to a relationship. Ultimately, “Everyone’s different, and what’s important for some may not be at all…
Sex Games to Ignite Passion in the Bedroom
Sex games may sound like a taboo way to spice up your sex life, but in reality, they are a lot of fun and have the power to re-spark your sex life! Personally, I believe that sex games add an element of playfulness to the bedroom,.But, in, which allows me and my partner(s) to really…