Sex Games to Ignite Passion in the Bedroom

Sex games may sound like a taboo way to spice up your sex life, but in reality, they are a lot of fun and have the power to re-spark your sex life! Personally, I believe that sex games add an element of playfulness to the bedroom,.But, in, which allows me and my partner(s) to really relax and enjoy every bit of our intimate time together. Sex doesn’t have to be serious or all about love-making, it can be super refreshing to turn things into a game in the bedroom. Sex games allow people to “stop worrying about the mechanics of sex and just enjoy playing with each other.” (yourtango)  Introducing sex games into the mix can create a new level of intimacy between you and your partner(s) and maybe even deepen your intimate connection! It’s noted that “Adult sex games help build trust, lower inhibitions, and … can be very, very hot.” (yourtango) Here are five easy, fun sex games that you can play with your partner to spice things up in the bedroom and leave everyone feeling like a winner!

• Stripped Down Twister

“What You Need: The board game “Twister”

How to Play: It’s the classic you know and love — only with less clothing. Every time somebody falls, they have to remove a layer.

Why: It’s a fun way to show off your flexibility, and who knows — you may discover new positions.” (redbookmag) 

This game is a personal favorite of mine because it adds an element of silliness into the bedroom. There’s nothing more nostalgic than playing a game of twister and it can be pretty funny seeing the positions the game puts you and your partner(s) into- especially when all of you are half-naked! 

• What’s Your Fantasy?

“What You Need: A hat (or small jar or bowl), small pieces of paper, and a pen

How to Play: Each of you will write down fantasies you have yet to share with your partner, be it having sex in a certain part of the house or trying out a new position. Put the slips of paper into the hat, then take turns unfolding them, one by one. (The next step, obviously, is executing them.)

Why: Sharing fantasies will you bring you closer together, and you’ll get to try out a whole bunch of new, super-sexy things.” (redbookmag) 

This game is great because all you need are items you can find in the house. Moreover, you’ll l get to learn new things about your partner(s) deepest fantasies, which can be a turn-on in and of itself! 

• Time Bomb

“You need: A clock or an egg timer.

How to play: Pick a time interval — 20 minutes, let’s say. For whatever interval you choose, tease each other with kissing, touching, and other forms of foreplay. But no matter what, absolutely do not allow penetration until that much time has elapsed.

Why: Most people have foreplay down to a science, or rather, a routine, especially if you’re in a long-term relationship. “Time Bomb” refocuses you on the pre-game show. You’ll be surprised by how much slowing down changes things. You get really creative and really turned on.” (redbookmag) 

This game is perfect for those of us who want to slow things down in the bedroom and focus on other intimate acts rather than sex. This game gives you the opportunity to deeply explore your partner’s body(ies), you may even find new things that you enjoy! 

• Grab Bag

“You need: Your favorite (clean!) sex toys, a large bag, and a blindfold.

How to play: Put all your favorite sex toys in a large bag. One of you will put a blindfold on, reach in, and grab that sex toy. That’s the toy you have to use for foreplay that evening.

Why: Sex toys offer a great lead-up to the main event, but sometimes, it can be overwhelming to decide which one to use.”  (redbookmag) 

Sex toys are a quick and easy way to add new sensations to your sex life. In reality, there’s only so much the human body can do and sex toys open up a whole new world of pleasure. Remember that there are sex toys made for individuals of every gender, don’t be afraid to think outside of the box as the options on the market are endless! 

• Strip Pong

“You need: 12 16-ounce Solo cups, ping-pong balls, a table to play on, your choice of alcohol

How to play: Take it back to your college days and set up 6 Solo cups on each end of the table, as if you were playing beer pong. Fill the cups with your preferred choice of alcohol — or water if you’re going to keep things clean — and stand at one end of the table with your partner at the other end. Take turns trying to throw a ping-pong ball into each other’s cups. When one of you scores, the other has to remove that cup and a piece of clothing. (Decide at the beginning of the game if the scorer gets to choose which item.) Whoever scores all six cups first gets to request the sexual favor of their choice.

Why: It’s reminiscent of the days you were young and possibly a bit more carefree, And because you’re alone, rather than at some overcrowded sticky-floor house party, you can really let go of your inhibitions and bask in the sexual fun.” (redbookmag) 

This game is another one of my favorites because it adds that element of silly playfulness. There’s nothing better than a good old-fashioned game of pong, whether you’re playing with alcohol or not. To spice things up a bit you can wear lingerie underneath your clothing and tease your partner(s) as you strip throughout the game! 

By: Alyssa Morterud