Low/High Desire and Arousal Issues Therapy in Texas

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Evidence-Based, Compassionate Therapy for Individuals or Couples

ReSpark Group is a premier therapy practice, with industry-leading clinicians, helping clients with relationships and sexual wellness. With ReSpark, you get the benefits of working with one of the biggest couples therapy and sex therapy groups in the country. All clinicians receive continuous supervision, consultation, and advanced education. ReSpark offers evidence-based, effective therapy and coaching. Clinicians obtain world-class sex therapy and couples therapy training from the Sexual Health Alliance.

Our team personally matches every patient with an expert who has the right personality and education for the best outcomes. Your time is valuable, and it's our goal for you to quickly develop rapport with someone who is a good fit for you and your needs.

ABOUT OUR THERAPY FOR AROUSAL ISSUES AND UN-MATCHED DESIRE IN TEXAS

WHAT IS UNMATCHED SEXUALITY OR DESIRE DISCREPANCY?


You may be experiencing unmatched sexuality when you and/or your partner(s) feel as if you are not on the same page sexually. Perhaps one of you desires sex and sexual interactions more frequently than you or your other partners. Frustration can quickly seep in with desire discrepancy–frustration for feeling out of sync with your partner(s) and frustration for feeling as if your libido is playing tricks on you. It could also be the other way around: Perhaps you are suddenly feeling a high libido and are discouraged that your partner does not return the excitement.

 

At some point in their relationship, many couples will experience arousal issues and desire discrepancy and a Respark therapist can guide you through these moments. Our highly-trained professionals discuss the conflict in arousal issues all the time, so know you are not alone. Unmatched sexuality is common for individuals and relationships at all stages. We are here to help find beauty in the balance and assist in creating the relationship you want with your partner(s). 

HOW DO I KNOW IF I NEED UNMATCHED SEXUALITY THERAPY?


Unmatched sexuality therapy is for those who want sex more often than their partner(s), those who want sex less often than their partner(s), those who have experienced a change in libido and usual arousal, and those feeling a sudden total lack of sexual arousal or desire. Unmatched Sexuality Therapy is your time to discover and voice sexual boundaries you might not have needed earlier in life, that have changed over time and through relationships, and personal desires and needs when it comes to sexual interactions. Unmatched Sexuality Therapy is for those struggling with any arousal issues, desire discrepancy, or libido problems. Remember, there is no “normal” when it comes to sexuality, so stop trying to measure it. Meet your desired discrepancy with compassion and understanding.

Just want a therapist that is knowledgeable and affirming?

Clients tell us we're friendly, down to earth and approach therapy in a collaborative manner. We offer a holistic, gentle yet direct, and tailored approach that includes well-researched theories with a relational foundation. Together, we will learn new techniques, assign at-home exercises, reading assignments, conduct in-session guided exercises and other activities that make therapy and coaching fun and productive. We'll work together to form an approach that will be tailored to your goals. Leading researchers, including Esther Perel, Brené Brown, John Gottman, David Schnarch, David Ley, Chris Donaghue, and Marty Klein influence our therapeutic work with couples and individuals.  Additionally, as AASECT-Certified Sex Therapists, we will work toward improving intimacy, strengthening communication skills, and communicating your desires.

 

common reasons to go to unmatched sexuality therapy

This is a very common issue that couples come to Respark Therapy for. Couples conflict in sexual arousal and desire discrepancy all of the time, and you are not alone. We’re here to help.

  • Wanting less sex than your partner 
  • Wanting more sex than your partner
  • Not feeling aroused or experiencing low desire for your partner
  • Feeling frustrated about the disconnect with your partner
  • Feeling pressured to have sex because you know it’ll make your partner happy, even if you don’t feel in the mood 

Many couples at some point in their lives will experience a desire discrepancy or difference about how much sexual activity they are engaging in. Ask yourself:

  • Do you or your partner want sex more often than you do?
  • Or does your partner want less sex than you do?
  • Do you feel like you’ve lost the spark or your libido/desire?

do i need to be in a couple to attend unmatched sexuality therapy?

 

You do not need to be a part of a couple in order to attend any sex therapy practice, including unmatched sexuality therapy. If you are someone who thrives on casually dating, but suddenly loses sexual interest then desire discrepancy therapy could be for you. If you feel like your libido changes daily, regardless of relationship status, unmatched sexuality therapy could be beneficial to you as well!

TESTIMONIAL

"I collaborate professionally with Heather on a regular basis and believe she is a talented, effective, and down-to-earth sex therapist. She is my go-to referral for clients exploring sexuality issues such as a sexless marriage, issues of sexual identity, kink, open and poly relationships. I feel so lucky to have her as part of our Austin therapist community!”

Dr. Jessica Michaelson

Dear Texas, ReSpark Your Fire With Us

The sex therapy services offered at Respark are confidential and highly specialized. If you are looking for a sex therapist with specialty training in sexuality issues, look no further. Visit our in person locations in Austin, Texas or see a provider online from any location you choose. We know that Austin prides itself on being a healthy city with great healthcare resources. Residents of Austin have their choice of great hospitals, doctors, mental health providers, and now, highly credentialed sex therapists. 

Although Austin, Texas is where our physical location is, residents from all over Texas are eligible for online sex therapy through Respark. From Fort Worth to El Paso, or any other great city in Texas, we are here to provide you with the services you need. 

When you are ready to re-spark the fire in your sex life, there is no one better to turn to than the specialty providers at Respark. We welcome individuals and couples from anywhere in the Texas region. Bring your spark back today!