Open Relationship Therapy

Compassionate therapy for every twist in your individual and relationship journey

ReSpark offers evidence based, effective therapy and coaching. Clinicians obtain world class sex therapy and couples therapy training from the Sexual Health Alliance. Many are licensed as an LMFT, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and have additional specialized certifications including year-long training programs in Couples therapy, Kink Informed Certification, Problem Sexual Behavior Certified ("Sex Addiction”), Open/Poly Certified and other critical issues related to relationships and sexual health.

ReSpark is dedicated to supporting individuals and couples exploring the world of open relationships, also known as ethical non-monogamy. Our therapy services are designed to assist you in navigating the intricate dynamics of non-traditional relationships, whether you are actively engaged in one, contemplating entering one, or simply curious about the possibilities they might offer. With a deep understanding of the complexities involved, our expert therapists provide guidance, support, and the tools necessary for thriving in open relationships.

Common Presenting Issues

  • Open Relationships
  • Monogamous Relationship Issues
  • Mixed Relationship Concerns (Monogmous/Poly Relationships or Swinger/Poly Relationships)
  • Polyamory Related Concerns
  • Swinging
  • Threesomes or moresomes questions/concerns or when it goes wrong
  • Relationship Anarchy
  • Kink
  • BDSM
  • Cuckolding / Cuckqueening
  • Hot Wife/ Hot Husbandry
  • Cross-Dressing
  • Sadomasochism
  • Exhibitionism
  • Fetishes
  • Furry
  • Sex workers
  • Erotic humiliation
  • Exhibitionism
  • Age play with adults

Understanding Open Relationships

Open relationships defy the traditional expectations of monogamy, offering a spectrum of relationship structures that include polyamory, swinging, solo polyamory, and more. These relationships are as diverse as the individuals who participate in them, each with its unique set of rules, dynamics, and challenges. At ReSpark, we recognize the significance of defining your relationship in a way that aligns with your desires and values. Our therapists are here to facilitate a thoughtful exploration of what it means to live and love openly, helping you and your partners cultivate a relationship style that truly fits.

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Just want a therapist that is knowledgeable and affirming?

Many of our clients are in open relationships and just need a therapist that won’t judge or maybe a therapist that just “gets it.” Respark Therapists are more than “poly friendly,” they have some of the most advanced, up to date training specifically in open relationships. We offer a holistic, gentle yet direct, and tailored approach that includes well-researched theories with a relational foundation. Together, we will learn new techniques, assign at-home exercises, reading assignments, conduct in-session guided exercises and other activities that make therapy and coaching fun and productive. We'll work together to form an approach that will be tailored to your goals. Leading researchers, including Esther Perel, Brené Brown, John Gottman, David Schnarch, David Ley, Chris Donaghue, and Marty Klein influence our therapeutic work with couples and individuals.  Additionally, as AASECT-Certified Sex Therapists, we will work toward improving intimacy, strengthening communication skills, and communicating your desires.

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How Can Therapy Help?

Open Relationship Therapy at ReSpark is a multifaceted approach designed to address a range of challenges and opportunities, including but not limited to:

  • Overcoming Emotional Hurdles: Techniques to manage feelings of jealousy, insecurity, and fear that can arise in open relationships.
  • Enhancing Communication: Strategies for expressing desires, needs, and boundaries clearly and effectively, fostering deeper understanding and connection.
  • Balancing Relationship Dynamics: Guidance on maintaining healthy, satisfying relationships with multiple partners, including navigating the complexities of throuples, V's, W's, and moresomes.

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