Cuckolding
In a September 2020 article from The Body: “Jerry Falwell Jr. Allegedly Likes to Watch. He’s Not Alone”, Respark’s very own founder and director Heather McPherson, LPC-S, LMFT-S, CST, was quoted, giving us insight into the world of cuckolding.
The article was looking into the psychology behind fetishes and kinks after the president of the evangelical, conservative Liberty University Jerry Falwell Jr, resigned following the reveal of his wife’s affair with a pool boy, in which, according to the pool boy, Falwell would watch him have sex with his wife, receiving pleasure from it; this term is also known as cuckolding.
Heather McPherson, Respark and Sexual Health Alliance Owner, responded to the myth that only men enjoy cuckolding. She stated that with some straight couples she sees, this has been initiated by the self-identifying male partner because the woman is already cheating and the man has eroticized it.
McPherson also mentions how some women also enjoy watching their male partners satisfy others as well, bringing up the differences between emotions in women and men, saying, “women find it pleasurable to watch their male partner really satisfy another woman. They tend to feel more openly proud of watching them perform than men, she says, who are sometimes more inclined to get off on feeling humiliated and emasculated.”
You can read the full article here: https://www.thebody.com/article/jerry-falwell-jr-cuckholding
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